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Intensity: Moderate

FLR Household: One Partner Leads the Home

Kneel TeamOfficial@kneel

11 items13 October 2026

  • Consequences

For a female-led relationship (FLR), or any couple where one partner leads the home and the other runs it to that standard. Chores with deadlines and penalties, a Saturday inspection, and a written split of who decides what. Money, work, and family stay shared.

Needs Premium: the two punishments, the reward, and the penalty points on the Saturday inspection. Everything else works on the free plan.

For a female-led relationship, or any couple where one partner leads the home. Start by reading the decision split together, so both of you know what stays shared. The first week sets the pattern: the kitchen reset every day, laundry twice, the weekly shop, and the whole chore list done and photographed before noon on Saturday. On days you are both home, every need is handled before it is voiced. On Sunday, send the plan for the next week. A missed chore costs points, a missed standard is answered with permission for everything until bed, and a home left short of standard is reset in full. After two weeks, move any deadline that does not fit your evenings. Either partner can pause or change the arrangement at any time.

Who does what

Submissive

  • Does 3 tasks
  • Does 2 rituals
  • Does requests from the menu

Dominant

  • Checks photo proof
  • Gives rewards
  • Assigns punishments
  • Sends requests from the menu

Both sign the agreement (1 term)

A typical week

Busiest day: 2 things

  • Saturday Service Inspectionat 12:00Sat
  • Kitchen Reset Before Dinnerat 18:00Every day
  • Service Planningat 19:00Sun
Things per daySun: 2Mon: 1Tue: 1Wed: 1Thu: 1Fri: 1Sat: 2

Also: Laundry Washed and Put Away (2× per week), The Weekly Shop (1× per week)

What is inside

Daily rhythm

  1. Task

    Kitchen Reset Before Dinner

    Leave the kitchen reset before dinner: counters wiped, sink empty, dishwasher running, nothing left out. It is done when there is nothing to come back to.

    Daily at 18:00Earns 5 pointsLoses 5 points if missed

    Note from Kneel Team: Due at 18:00 every day. Move it if you eat later.

  2. Task

    Laundry Washed and Put Away

    Take a full load from the basket to the drawer today: washed, dried, folded, put away. A pile on the bed is not finished laundry.

    2× per weekEarns 10 pointsLoses 5 points if missed

    Note from Kneel Team: Twice a week, any days.

  3. Task

    The Weekly Shop

    Plan the week's meals, write the list from what is actually missing, do the shop, and put everything away. Send the list before you leave the house.

    1× per weekEarns 10 pointsLoses 5 points if missed

    Note from Kneel Team: The list goes out before leaving, so nothing is missed or bought twice.

  4. Ritual

    Premium extras

    Saturday Service Inspection

    Every Saturday, the whole standard chore list is done and photographed before noon. Anything short of standard is done again the same day and named in the report.

    Weekly on Sat at 12:00Earns 25 pointsLoses 10 points if missedPhoto proof

    Note from Kneel Team: Saturday by noon. The bathroom is on the list every week.

  5. Ritual

    Service Planning

    Every Sunday, send next week's household plan for approval: chores, meals, the shop, and anything that needs arranging. The week runs on the approved version.

    Weekly on Sun at 19:00Earns 10 points

    Note from Kneel Team: Ten minutes on Sunday evening. The week runs on what is approved here.

Rewards

  1. Reward

    Premium

    Choose Tonight's Meal

    Pick what gets cooked or ordered tonight, and be served it rather than making it.

    Costs 40 points

    Note from Kneel Team: A good fit here: the one who usually cooks gets the night off.

Punishments

  1. Punishment

    Premium

    Permission for Everything Tonight

    Until bed tonight, ask before eating, drinking anything but water, sitting on furniture, or picking up a screen. Wait for the answer. Anything done without asking goes in a written list before bed.

    Restriction5 hours

    Note from Kneel Team: For a missed chore or a standard that slipped. Assign it before dinner: it ends on its own 5 hours later.

  2. Punishment

    Premium

    Reset the Whole Space

    Take two hours and return the whole home to standard, room by room: floors, surfaces, laundry, dishes. Photograph each finished room. Anything short of standard is done again after the two hours.

    Timer2 hPhoto proof

    Note from Kneel Team: For a failed Saturday inspection or the same chore missed twice in a week.

Agreement

  1. Agreement term

    Who Decides What

    • The dominant sets the household standard: what clean means, when chores are due, and how the week is planned.
    • The submissive runs the home to that standard and says early when something cannot be done in time.
    • Money, work, and family decisions are still made together.
    • On a day you are both home, every need is handled before it is voiced: drinks refilled, plates cleared, bags carried, errands run.
    • Either partner can pause or stop at any time.

    Expectations

    Note from Kneel Team: Money is left out. This Blueprint is about running the home.

Request menu

  1. Request menu

    Clear the table

    Earns 5 points

  2. Request menu

    Phones away, come sit with me

    Earns 5 points

    Note from Kneel Team: Not every ask is a chore. This one is time together.
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